Sunday 3 April 2011

Relationships

Here is a check list for someone who may be in an abusive relationship. 
This explains what love really is. Here are some options for one who may feel they are abused. 


Signs they love you:
□ Show they care about you- ex. ask how your day is or how you're feeling

□ Show they appreciate you- ex. thank you for making dinner or if you're always cleaning the dishes he/she may offer to do it for you/help out. Little things like this show appreciation 
□ They want to be with you- ex. whether you're making dinner together or watching a movie together your partner will want to spend time together 
□ Want to make you feel good- ex. hugs, kisses, compliments, etc
□ Communicate- ex. talk


If you are in an abusive relationship you should tell someone. If the abusive partner is living with you it is not safe for you to keep on living there.  There are houses and shelters for abused women and children.  Dealing with the fact that your partner does not treat you the way you should be treated you must get away from the controlling, aggressive figure.  Talk to someone and tell them what is going on so they can reach to you and help you on your journey out.

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